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Discover Yourself
Discover the hidden dynamics in your relationship. 8-dimension analysis, attachment style, love language and more.
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Relationships Analyzed
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Couples Tested Together
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Questions and insights tailored to your relationship type
Special questions for heterosexual couples
Special dynamics for gay couples
Special dynamics for lesbian couples
Each dimension is scored 0-100 and analyzed in detail. Discover your strengths and areas for growth.
How do you express your thoughts and feelings? How well do you listen to your partner?
Your sense of emotional closeness and security. How attached are you to each other?
How do you resolve disagreements? How do you come out of arguments?
How much do you trust each other? Do you feel safe in your relationship?
Your physical and emotional closeness. How comfortable are you sharing with each other?
How aligned are your core values and beliefs? Is your outlook on life similar?
Your balance of togetherness and personal space. Can you maintain your individuality?
Do you have shared goals and dreams? Do you plan the future together?
At the end of the test, you get an overall relationship health score from 0-100. This score is the average of 8 dimensions.
According to Bowlby and Ainsworth's attachment theory, our childhood experiences shape our adult relationships.
Healthy balance between closeness and independence. Trusts and is trustworthy.
Population percentage
Fear of abandonment, excessive need for approval. Constantly seeks reassurance.
Population percentage
Avoids closeness, emotional distance. Overvalues independence.
Population percentage
Wants closeness but fears it. Experiences conflicting emotions.
Population percentage
Did you know everyone expresses and receives love differently? Discover your and your partner's love language.
"I love you", "You're amazing"
Spending time together, attention
Thoughtful gifts, surprises
Helping, making things easier
Hugging, holding hands
According to Dr. Gottman's research, these 4 behaviors predict relationship failure with 93% accuracy.
Our test detects these patterns and offers personalized solutions.
If you take the test with your partner, your results are shown comparatively.
Overlapping areas show your strengths, differences show growth opportunities.
Your 0-100 scores in each dimension
Which of 4 attachment styles
Primary and secondary of 5 love languages
How you behave in arguments
Points you need to pay attention to
Strong foundations of your relationship
Personalized improvement suggestions
Two radar charts side by side
Dr. John Gottman
Four Horsemen Theory • 1999
Gary Chapman
5 Love Languages • 1992
Bowlby & Ainsworth
Attachment Theory • 1969
Ayşe & Mehmet
İstanbul • 5 years
"In our 5-year marriage, we've never understood each other this well. The test showed the source of our communication problems."
Sarah & John
London • 3 years
"We learned we have different attachment styles. I can say this knowledge saved our relationship."
Elif & Can
Ankara • 8 years
"The 8-dimension analysis is incredibly detailed. We clearly saw our strengths and weaknesses."
Emma & Michael
New York • 2 years
"We did it while engaged, it was a perfect tool to get to know each other before marriage."
Zeynep & Ali
İzmir • 12 years
"Even after 12 years, we learned new things about each other. The love language section was especially helpful."
Lisa & David
Berlin • 1 years
"We're in a new relationship and this test showed what we might face in the future. Very valuable insights!"
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8 dimensions, attachment style, love language and more. Scientific, private, and can be taken with your partner.
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This test is based on Gottman methodology, attachment theory, and 5 love languages model.
Results are for informational purposes only and do not replace professional couples therapy.